One of the most exciting things about this show is that there will be two example ceremonies being conducted, the first at 1pm and the second at 2pm, designed to give you ideas and inspiration for your own civil partnership ceremony.

There is also entertainment and lots of exhibitors for you to chat with and see what they can offer in person. We're providing goody bags for the event, so make sure you grab one whilst you're there!

Gino Meriano, the organiser of the Gay Wedding Show recently commented on the success of the Cardiff show, saying" It’s great to see exhibitors showing true support and adding value to the community, rather than simply tapping into the Pink Pound for a quick return."

I'll second that! I hope you have a great time if you're able to go! Find out more info on the Gay Wedding Show website.

I have personally spoken to several gay couples who have told me about how poorly they've been treated and I discussed this issue in a recent interview with Gino Meriano. He said:

"I'm so glad you ask that, because there are some people who can't believe that it is needed, but homophobia is still there, even after all these years of civil partnership ceremonies, and it is definitely present in the traditional wedding industry. I've been to straight wedding fayres and exhibited as Pink Weddings, the abuse from exhibitors and visitors was incredible."

Read the full interview here

I'm an optimistic person (on a good day) and I like to think that life for gay people in Britain is getting better. However, a recent conversation with Sharon at Best Dress 2 Impress has brought this back to the forefront of our minds.

Sharon is one of the latest wedding business owners to advertise with The Gay Wedding Organizer, and she told us how several of her customers have experienced poor treatment prior to finding her.

The first thing she told us about was this: "A lesbian couple told me that they went into a bridal shop to look for dresses together and in the end had to 'pretend' that they were a bride and her best friend looking for dresses as the shop assistants made them feel so uncomfortable. They felt embarrassed and left."

This makes me furious – and so upset for the couple involved. Have you had any similar experiences?

Sharon went on to tell us about another incident involving a gay man who wanted to enquire about dresses, but as soon as he opened his mouth the shop assistant said that she didn't serve men.

Sharon said this in an e-mail to me this week and I couldn't agree more: "In my mind this is just outrageous as you shouldn't refuse to serve a person based on colour, creed, gender etc; but this is still happening frequently. Only last week I had a text from a lovely man who had obviously been treated badly and he also wants a dress but explained that he 'understood' if I did not want to deal with him. My response was ' when would you like to visit me and try on a few gowns?'  I'm also helping him with corsets, stockings and a veil!"

All I can say is thank goodness he found Sharon.

We have to do something about this!

I have a plan brewing in my heart, one that will need a lot of input from you, dear readers. First, I want to hear about your experiences – both good and bad. This isn't to name and shame, but to bring your experiences out into the open so we can see what is really happening out there in wedding land.

•    Have you ever been made to feel uncomfortable when approaching a wedding company?

•    Have you ever been treated differently once the supplier has discovered you're arranging a civil partnership ceremony and celebration?

•    Have you had any experiences similar to the ones Sharon told me about?

Please do let us know in the comments. This is really important; we have the opportunity to not only talk about it, but also tell the industry what needs to change. Let's make that happen.

The Wedding Organizer: Let's talk about Pink Weddings and your campaigning for gay rights. What is Pink Weddings?

Gino Meriano: Pink Weddings is a social enterprise designed to help couples with their wedding planning – both gay and straight couples. People can get completely stressed out about their wedding, and for gay couples it can be even more stressful, so Pink Weddings provides someone to talk to and get help with the planning. We are in touch with a wide network of gay-friendly suppliers, so that's one of the most obvious ways we help.

We give guidance and pricing structures – a couple might say "we've got x thousand pounds in the budget and, x number of guests, what can we have?" Most is achievable with an open mind, we help couples get want they want.

The Wedding Organizer: And what about the gay rights campaigning?

Gino Meriano: Well I sort of fell into gay rights… I wanted something for my partner and I in 2000 – 2001 to help celebrate our partnership, and he said, why not build a website, so we did. That was the start of it all.

When the Civil Partnership bill came in, I was brought in as consultant. Soon after the bill became law, Bromley Register Office said that it wasn't going to offer civil partnership ceremonies. People in the area e-mailed me, I couldn't stand it and put a march on, after arranging it with the police and town hall. Bromley overturned their decision after we brought the high street to a stand still and from that day on I suppose I was a gay rights campaigner

The Wedding Organizer: How would you describe yourself?

Gino Meriano: Tired! No: a gay rights campaigner for same-sex families.

The Wedding Organizer: Why do you feel a company dedicated to helping gay couples plan their wedding is needed?

Gino Meriano: I'm so glad you ask that, because there are some people who can't believe that it is needed, but homophobia is still there, even after all these years of civil partnership ceremonies, and it is definitely present in the traditional wedding industry. I've been to straight wedding fayres and exhibited as Pink Weddings, the abuse from exhibitors and visitors was incredible.

The Wedding Organizer: I interviewed couples at one of your fayres years ago Gino and I was shocked at some of the stories they told me about being turned away by wedding suppliers.

Gino Meriano: It's incredible, isn't it? People are still not being as inclusive as they could. I see it when I go with a gay man to see a potential venue, there's inevitably the "where's the bride?" question. When the partner says "I'm gay" you see how their face changes – that homophobia is still there.

I also see it on brochures and promotional material released by wedding companies. Some venues are not even prepared to put up "civil partnership" on a post advertising their wedding ceremony rooms.

But I should add that there are people out there who are really getting it right; the brochure produced by Cheshire East Register Office for example. It's the best brochure I've seen in a long time. I literally bow down to them! It's so classy, so right, all couples are represented in it. I was blown away when I saw it for the first time.

The Wedding Organizer: Aside from the acceptance and being treated with the same courtesy as any customer should be, do gay couples have any particular needs when it comes to a venue for example?

Gino Meriano: For some couples; they may not be comfortable being overlooked by members of the public for the reasons we've just discussed. Having photos outside can be an issue for them, when the photographer asks them to hold hands and kiss for example. For people who have these worries, we help them to find a venue that's exclusive, in which the grounds are theirs for the whole time without other people around.

The Wedding Organizer: Do people get hung up on the language used? I knew a gay couple who refused to let people call their ceremony a 'wedding'.

Gino Meriano: In the beginning it was confusing, no-one knew whether to say marriage, Civil Partnership, wedding – it was all up in the air. 90% of the time people say "I'm getting married to my partner next year" because that language is bred into you, society dictates marriage.

There is a sticking point about the word marriage because of the legal definition of it being a union between a man and a woman, and I think about 1% of people get wound up about its colloquial use.

Wedding venues and advertisers etc can put "marriage and civil partnerships" or just refer to "weddings" and that will incorporate everyone without putting any noses out of joint. The use of the word "wedding" seems fine now.

Over the years I've loosened up about this too. It makes me think about why we called ourselves Pink Weddings: Pink was the political aspect and 'Weddings' because that is the event. You know, I've even written to the Oxford Dictionary to ask them to put Civil Partnership under 'wedding' and not 'marriage' so language is important, but less confusing than it once was.

Coming up in part two…
In the next part of the interview, Gino talks about some amazing wedding planning experiences and give lots of advice to couples planning a gay wedding. Watch this space!

When: 7th March 12-5pm
Where: St James's Hotel and Club, London (Directions to the hotel)
Entrance Fee: None! You will be given the opportunity to donate to charity in lieu of an entrance fee.
The Gay Wedding Show website

The Gay Wedding Show venue

The show is being held at the gorgeous St James's Hotel and Club in Central London, near to Green Park. Victoria train station is fifteen minutes walk away, and Green Park Underground station is only 2 minutes walk away.

The fayre is being held in the lower ground floor, a beautiful network of interconnecting rooms including a library, reading room and one called the Mayfair room which sounds divine.

The exhibitors

Gino has gathered together a fantastic variety of exhibitors, ranging from a jeweller to a financial advisor and including a photographer, florist, menswear specialist, honeymoon agency and House of Fraser gift list representative. All are reputable suppliers who are absolutely guaranteed to be gay-friendly.

Tickets

Even though the event is free, if you download an e-ticket before the day, you can enter a competition with a stonking first prize: 3 nights in Las Vegas for two people. Find out more and download your ticket.

Donations to charity

When you arrive, you'll be given the opportunity to make a donation of up to £2, which is passed on in entirety to a selection of charities.

So what are you waiting for? If you can be in London on the 7th of March, drop in and meet Gino and the gay wedding show exhibitors in what promises to be a rather special gay wedding fayre. Have fun!